Hairspiration from Think Like A Man Too

The ladies of Think Like A Man after filming all rocking lushious locks.

I was a fan of Think Like A Man mainly because I am a Kevin Hart fan. So I have been eager to watch this second one, I even stopped myself from downloading it online. So this week thanks to my real job, I scored an invite to an early screening at Cavendish Mall, just two days before the official SA cinema release.

Think Like A Man Too officially premiers in South Africa this Friday 25th July. I know for sure I'm not the only one who's been eager to see it. So without giving to much away and spoiling it for anyone I am going to focus on some of my favourite hair looks the actresses and other celebs rocked at the Think Like A Man premier.

 Regina Hall always rocks a bob well it's a look that works for her.

Taraji P Henson in her loose curls, her character was my favourite in the film.

 This blonde hair on Meagan Good is stunning. Well I'm actually kinda obsessed with it thats why I had to post two different pictures. I don't know if I'd go this blonde but I love the cut and styling.

Another of my favourite looks from the premier is definitly Miss Keri baby, Keri Hilson's hair looks so effortless and natural I can't tell if it's her hair or not but it looks beautiful. This look can be achieved with natural hair or with a weave. 

 I actually realised as I posted this that I've always liked these three ladies style. So it's no surprise they are my favourite hair looks. Kelly Rowland as we know is the queen of a bob/ razor cut she can do no wrong Ever with this hairstyle.

Another star who was there rocking this ombre type hair was Golden Brooks or Maya as I will forever remember by her Girlfriends character. 

                    Keke Palmer rocked sleek long black weave we a look that no one can go wrong rocking it.

What do you guys think of the hair looks is there something your looking forward to trying next season? Let us know drop a comment down below.

Newbie Healthy Hair Affair: First steps to getting your hair healthy

When I decided to start my healthy hair journey I wish I had been told some things. So if you are on this blog, my guess is you have FINALLY decided to start taking better care of your hair. That's the best thing you can do for your hair but where does one start? Well, these are a few of the things that helped me get my hair a on the right path starting off. I haven't reached all my hair goals yet but I'm a lot satisfied with my natural hair health. So I decided to share some of the hair-education and  hair tips that helped me and that I still follow.

•  Firstly if your ends whether relaxed, natural or dreaded are damaged there is no point hanging on to them. Cut the bad ends off! I know a lot of us ladies who just hang on to thin damaged hair to feel like we have length but fact is damaged split ends can't be repaired. The damage just moves higher up your hair shaft.

Let go, cut it, don't hold on, it's not worth it!

• Deal don't hide your damaged hair don't say you want better healthier hair then hide it under braids or a weave hoping the damage will go away. A protective style is great but it won't help you if you already don't take care of your hair and are always hiding it. So I'd suggest you deal with it, take out those braids, weave whatever for a few weeks or month and give your damaged hair or hairline some daily tlc (moisture, weekly treatments). You might not want people to see your damaged hair but it won't get better if you keep hiding and not caring or dealing with the problem.

• Now go back to the beginning and evaluate your current or past hair practices & regime or lack there off. What are you doing right or wrong? If you didn't Moisturize daily start moisturising more regularly. Black hair thrives on moisture that includes shampoo and conditioning too! If you don't do weekly or at least bi-weekly hair treatments (moisture/oil/protein) on your hair start doing them.You'll be amazed at the benefits of consistent treatments.

These are some of my go to daily & weekly products for my relaxed hair.

• Then once you know what you weren't doing right. You'll need to Start a consistent hair regime. Lazy doesn't grow healthy hair. It's important in this healthy hair game and if you want to see results to be Commited. This process may take time to get used to and some trial and error but if you stay commited you should see some difference and learn what your hair loves and hates in the process.

• When I say Build a regime this is not about the 'popular' or 'top' products you use but about the consistency and the regular care you give your hair. What works for me is incorporating a regime into my daily routine the same way I brush my teeth or put mascara on daily. Get a regime going, part of that is discovering what hair products your hair loves and then start using those regularly or as often as your hair needs.

• Get the products that work for YOU! No products work the same way on every persons hair but there are guidlines to finding what works for your hair type. It may take some trial and error to findout what your individual hair needs. Don't just use a product because others use it or especially because the hair advert looked convincing.

•  Make sure the regime works with your lifestyle, in my case I moisture and seal at night because I have more time to do it properly. I'll say it again Moisturise this seems obvious I know but learn to moisturize properly using non drying moisturisers (don't have sulphate and parabens). Washing your hair weekly more often, using a water based moisturiser and a light or heavy oil to seal in that moisture.

These are some of the lessons I had to learn and start practicing to get on my healthy hair journey. Trust me just doing one of these and you will notice some change.
Hope these first steps help you to starting your healthy hair affair!

Relaxer Stretching Benefits & my 16 week stretch

Hi ladies although I have been in protective styles ( braids & weaves) since starting my blog. I have relaxed hair underneath and have mentioned that I’m currently stretching my hair relaxer (16 weeks post). I realised however I haven’t fully explained or shared what relaxer stretching is about, why I’m doing it and the benefits of stretching for me.

My go to protective styles braids or weave

I am at the 16 week mark of my relaxer strectch now, yay I can’t believe it. It wasn't my first time stretching but it was the first time I stretched to 16 weeks. I usually do 12-13 weeks max. Most of my relaxer stretch I wore I wore protective styles (braids, net weave) to protect my hair. I took one week breaks in between styles to treat my hair and give my hairline a break.  So to those wondering what my stretching hair talk is all about here goes.

Here I was 14 weeks post stretch  the day I installing my weave 

                                                What is relaxer stretching all about?

Stretching your relaxer is simply extending the amount of time between how often you relax. Not relaxing for more than 8 weeks is considered stretching.  For example, rather than relaxing every 8 weeks, many ladies on healthy hair journeys stretch their relaxer touch ups to every 10 to 12 weeks, or longer.

 (Pic- Stretching me)

I am 16 weeks post my last relaxer this is the longest I have ever stretched and it was no joke and to be honest I am more than ready to end my relaxer stretch. Anything longer than this might be too long for me and my hair. I think 16 weeks might be my perfect cut off stretch time. If you’re wondering why I put myself and hair through this well there are benefits to this relaxer stretching thing.

                                                 Benefits of stretching your relaxer time   

1.It makes your hair grow faster- yes chemicals make your hair weaker. So for this reason it doesn’t allow your hair to grow as fast as it would if it wasn’t processed. This doesn’t make relaxers a bad thing it’s just learning how to use them to your hair health benefit     

2.The risk of drastically overlapping decreases. I personally hate it when my previously relaxed hair gets relaxed again. Stretching long helps makes the difference between new growth and previously relaxed hair more visible. Helps avoid over processing previously relaxed hair again. 

3. Your hair becomes healthier over time- a lot of women with relaxers get breakage and hair damage due to relaxing too often. I was one of these women hence I decided to stretch; my hair has been healthier and breaking much less.

Even though I managed 16 weeks which is 4 whole months, dealing with two textures can be difficult. And although stretching a relaxer has benefits and is healthy for your hair, stretching too long without proper care could cause your hair to break were the growth and previously relaxed meet (demarcation line). Here is a graphic to show you better.

The demarcation line get very fragile during a relaxer stretch.

                                                    Challenges of stretching your relaxer

1.       What I found most challenging was dealing with the two different hair types the longer my stretch. Managing new growth and relaxed hair at 8 weeks is a lot easier than managing my two textures at 14 weeks. Washing, conditioning takes longer and much more care and attention the further the stretch is.

2.       Shedding.  Some ladies who stretch their relaxer notice an increase in their hair shedding rates. However with the right care you can reduce shedding

3.       Breakage at line of demarcation.  The point where the relaxed hair and natural hair meets tends to be fragile and can break if not handled with care.

                                               Tips for first time stretching

If you’re not used to stretching your relaxer remember to start slowly and gradually increase your stretch period according to what your hair can tolerate. If you relax your hair every 8 weeks aim to start first by stretching to 10 weeks then maybe next time 12weeks and so on.

During this 16 week long relaxer stretch I did think about transitioning to natural. Only because my last salon visit was such a nightmare (inexperienced stylist burnt me) I'll save that for a whole other post. I know first hand that stretching can be a challenge ladies but I have seen real benefits for my hair health since I started.

So there you have it if there is anything that you want to know or share with me please just comment below. Have a healthy hair affair!

My Weave Care routine (Part 2)

After I did my last blog post about how I maintain my own hair while wearing a weave. I got a request from a blog supporter to share how I’m maintaining my virgin Peruvian hair. In the past I made many mistakes when taking care of my own hair and weave. I’d buy hair extensions/weave and the hair wouldn’t last as long as it should have. But through trial and error I realised my hair and weave care mistakes.

Currently have installed 12 inch Peruvian body wave.

Ladies, when you invest in good quality virgin/remy human hair( Brazilian, Peruvian, Malaysian, etc) you expect it to last and stay as fresh as when you bought it, right? I know I do, high quality human hair should last 6 months to a year or even longer depending on the grade of hair and use. But even if you payed a lot of Randela’s for the hair it can only stay looking good if YOU maintain it correctly.

This was after a wash and blow dry hence there isn't much curl definition.

 Because it is REAL hair (once belonged to someone, lol) it needs regular washes just like your own hair does to keep it looking healthy. These are the products I’ve been using for my weave care regime. Tresemme Shampoo and Conditioner the Thermal Recovery range with aloe and almond extracts. Depending on how often you use heat or if your weave is dyed choose a shampoo and conditioner based on that. I don’t use these products on my own hair only when I’m wearing a weave because they have silicones which dry my natural hair. But for my weave they work just fine to cleanse and condition it.

Tresemme Shampoo & Conditioner (R59 each on sale)

 I usually moisturise my scalp and hair underneath my weave daily. So it’s my weave gets a little weighed down and greasy.Even if you don't moisturise your own hair the natural oils from your own hair can make your extensions greasy. It’s important to wash your weave OFTEN weekly or at least every second week depending. I have been washing and conditioning my hair every 10 days whenever I can do my hair at home. 

                                   

After washing and conditioning I often air dry my hair to get that natural curl from this Peruvian body wave. But when I’m using my hood dryer or blow dryer I spray this Tresemme Heat Protector to help protect the weave from getting heat damage. Then I just follow up with a small drop of this Moroccan Argan oil by Avon to add shine. A little goes a long way so this small 30ml bottle will last a while. The lady I bought my hair from suggest this and it's great, affordable and smells divine. Plus I can also use this Moroccan Argan oil on my own hair as a sealant and to add a healthy shine.

 Right: Heat Protector by Tresemme ( Around R50)

 A drop daily of this Moroccan Argan oil (R 80) on my weave is all I need

Silicone is a good alternative to use to add shine on remy/virgin human hair. Beware to avoid using too much silicone on virgin/remy hair too much tends to have the opposite effect making it greasy and weigh it down.  Atleast that has been my experience with it. In general avoid putting an overload of products after washing your extensions a little oil will go a long way.To get that blowing in the wind movement once you have washed, conditioned your weave.

Far Right: Silicone 

Ladies your hair extensions can really last a little longer and look much better with just regular wash and care. Happy weave care affair!